The Ethical Sex website
Lustery is our favorite alternative porn website! Why?
This homemade porn website offers videos of real couples who love each other and have chosen to share their fantasies with us, whether it’s in the car, in the forest, in a threesome, or simply in bed. For us, there’s nothing more exciting!
Lustery also offers free online courses to educate users about ethical porn, addressing our bad habits, dispelling negative myths, and explaining the difference between porn and reality.
“Real Couples, Real Emotions, Real Sex”
A few videos from Lustery to whet your appetite:
Price: Free or $8/month
Erika Lust’s first film is free!
Price: from $9/month
“Realistic hot sex-positive”
Erika Lust is undoubtedly the best-known name when it comes to Feminist & Ethical Porn. A pioneer of this movement, which places women’s pleasure back at the center of the debate rather than reducing them to sexual objects, Erika offers a wide selection of ethical, realistic, and exciting adult films. Whether it’s lesbian, threesome, couples’ confessions, or hardcore scenes, there’s something for everyone!
“No fakes, no pretences.
This is real sex on camera.”
Ersties is an atypical, fun, and ethical porn website offering only videos made by women focused on female pleasure, whether alone, with a partner, or in an orgy!
Price: $12/month
“Porn by Woman !”
Bellesa offers free feminist porn. Founded by women, ‘we believe that sexuality on the internet should portray women as they really are: subjects of pleasure, not objects of conquest.‘ It’s a genuine porn website for women!
Pink Label is a platform for independent adult films. The aim is to showcase ethical filmmakers. There’s something for everyone, and we love it!
Price : $15/mo
“Artistic Porn”
Exploring themes of technology, symbolism, mythology and alchemy, as well as their intrinsic intersection with sex, and taking its cue from the increasing decentralization of traditional adult industry activities, Four Chambers is independent, DIY, conceptual porn cinema.
Price : $9/mo
“Queer Porn”
Crash Pad is a site where you can find: “real dyke porn, lesbians, women on women, boi, stud, genderqueer and trans-masculine performers, transwomen, transmen, queer men and women engaging in authentic queer sexuality“. A specific proposal that should delight those interested.
Price : $20/mo
“It’s ethical pornography, in which we don’t reduce women as sexual objects.”
Far from the mainstream pornography that floods our daily lives, ethical porn brings a new perspective on our bodies and our desires, imperfect, beautiful and all different…
Ethical porn, also known as alternativ or feminist porn, is a movement that places women’s images and their pleasure at the center of the narrative. Actors’ and actresses’ preferences are respected (in both soft and hard porn), and sexual acts are portrayed as close to reality as possible, even natural.
This is ethical pornography, in which women are not degraded by being treated as sex objects. On the contrary, actresses are active, involved, and listened to, not constantly subjected to male desire tinged with misogyny. The relationship is mutual, consensual, and shared, with room for both men and women, far from the male stereotypes found in much traditional porn. Sensitivity, realism, mutual respect, but also more ‘fringe’ practices, usually overlooked by mainstream sites, are highlighted.
Watching feminist pornography means encouraging the development of a more ethical part of the industry, in which actors are properly paid and better treated by productions.
Honestly, do you recognize yourself in mainstream porn? Standardized bodies, fake orgasms that rob the moment of sincerity. The same scenarios over and over again, the same degrading images that teach us to approach sexuality in an unreal, unbalanced, and predominantly male way. We’re tired, we’re confused, and the pleasure is non-existent…
Watching ethical porn is an opportunity to take pleasure in real bodies, real orgasms, not clichés and soulless standardized scenarios that push us to imagine sexuality in a way that’s increasingly unhealthy and far removed from reality. For us, exploring sexuality through one’s own body also means developing curiosity and imagination, and avoiding the standardization of traditional porn.
“By consuming paid content, you’re promoting “humane” productions that pay actresses and actors fairly.”
Why pay to watch porn when you have access to thousands of free contents on different sites? That’s probably what you’re thinking, and we’re not judging anyone – we’ve done it for years too. But when you delve a little deeper, free pornographic content has extremely harmful impacts.
Free access inevitably leads to lower income: actors and directors are paid less, and production quality suffers. In some cases, filming conditions, resources, hygiene, and atmosphere deteriorate sharply. Actresses are the first to be affected, with films made by men for men, in which abuse and mistreatment can occur.
It’s ethical to pay for what you consume. By consuming paid content, you’re supporting “humane” productions that pay actresses and actors fairly.
The fact that a platform or production company labels its productions as ‘ethical adult cinema’ does not necessarily guarantee that they meet this standard, especially since the interpretation of this term can vary from person to person.
The meaning of the term ‘ethical’ in the context of adult content remains ambiguous. It would be wise for platforms describing themselves as offering ‘feminist porn’ or for film companies to clarify their perspective on what makes their productions ethical. Providing clarification on aspects such as artist remuneration or consent legacy would be beneficial in informing consumers.
While ethical porn and feminist porn share close connections, we consider the two to be distinct concepts. Feminist porn primarily emphasizes placing women at the center of the narrative, respecting them, and prioritizing their needs and desires. As Erika Lust points out, feminist productions often involve an all-female technical crew on set. However, many feminist productions inherently embody ethical principles as well.
Ethical porn, on the other hand, prioritizes values such as consent, equal treatment, and body and gender diversity. Mainstream porn frequently reduces women to mere objects of desire, but ethical porn aims to put women on an equal footing. As a result, some may perceive ethical porn as feminist, when in reality, it simply embodies principles of consideration and respect.
Homemade Porn is simply pornography that you shoot at home, outside, in your car, in your hotel room, on your own, using a camera or a phone, in a non-professional way. In vogue for many years, the popularity of Homemade Porn continues unabated…
The answer to this question seems obvious to us! Of course you can be a feminist and love porn (and make porn too!). But what lies behind this rather easy answer (which concerns only our personal opinion)? A real societal question, much deeper than it seems.
Don’t know what feminist porn is? Or are you looking for new sites to watch it on? Tired of mainstream porn that just doesn’t turn you on anymore? Can’t relate because the orgasms are fake and women’s pleasure is given little consideration? You’ve come to the right place!
Erika Lust (real name Erika Hallqvist) was born in Stockholm, Sweden, in 1977. Director, screenwriter and producer, she is known as one of the pioneers of feminist porn.
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